I think my fiance is un-attentive whilst talking on phone with me?

Ok so my opinion on this is that maybe then 2-3 hours every day on the phone is too much. Please do not take any of this the wrong way as I do not have one mean bone in my body. It is very unfortunate that you can not get her to visit you. So if you are so frustrated, maybe go visit her or go out and meet in a mutual place, such as a bar or restaurant and see each other. Or perhaps cut back on the phone time. I would get bored too, even if it was my fiance that was talking to me. I am engaged to be married 9/10/11. Right now I live in New Jersey and he lives in California. Throughout our day, we do speak, but yes, I watch TV and so does he. That does not mean we are not listening to each other. We also talk for as long as we need to and then we hang up. We text each other a million times a day to ask questions or just say I love you to each other. But we both have lives that must continue even though we can not be together right now. My advice is to just try to relax. Do not stop kissing her and showing her all of your love. The best advice anyone can give is simply to pick your battles. This does not seem big enough for a battle. As long as she listens to you and does not ignore you so you have to repeat yourself, there should not be a problem. Good luck! =)